How long can you continue to make what appears to be a one sided effort to keep in contact with someone you have been good freinds with for 7 years. I live only 2 min drive from her and it seems the last 12 months She has visited me once and I have visited her more times than I can remember. I see her occasionally at school functions and get a hello but she is always in a rush. Is it time to just stop making all the effort and leave it up to her to contact. This is the same person that made a promise that we would have a girls only trip to sabah in 2006 and then turns around and goes with her partner and her boss. Well didn't matter I went to Sabah and had a bloody great time on my own.